The last 2 days were very challenging here at home. Saturday was full of firefighters exchanges between my daughter and I and Sunday the same but this time between my husband and my daughter..... I was able to recognise that the dynamic of defenses up, were actually protecting or looking out for a lack in [...]
Thank you so much for sharing. I had a part in me, a little girl I have rediscovered after 11 years which is the amount of years I have been with my husband... This little girl had lost her voice and I had neglected how she felt as well as her needs. It turned out [...]
Here is a very common and popular pattern I was accustomed to for so long and also blind about and that I have used for quite a long time unconsciously with my closest relationships. My daughter or my husband have a little habit to press that one spots in my mind labeled as "please react" [...]
These last days have been hard as I am waiting ever so patiently for my aunt to call me and let me know about my mother's final tests results after ending her last chemo therapy treatment two weeks ago. My aunt isn't calling me back and yes her excuse for not calling me back is [...]
If it s not love..... It s a program... The programing, (the fear, the frustration, the anxiety, the hurt, all the feelings, the enemie Jesus talks about, the wounded child, the addict in self destruction or being it's perfect recovery self, the good guy the bad guy, the happy all the time peace and love [...]
At the end of us it feels like we are parting going our separate ways never to be with one another again. At the end of us our hearts are broken, a cloud of hatred is floting between us. A part of me detaches from me and remains bitter pushing anger where it can be [...]